The title speaks for itself, but I’ll say this.  While this was a regrettable outcome, meeting someone online is no different than meeting a stranger in the “real world”.  You have to use your best judgement and be careful. No amount of checking can filter out all the creeps and crazies in the world.

From Cnet:

“You never know whom you are meeting on dating sites.

Now, one California woman is trying to get a court to declare that you actually should be told the bare minimum: whether your potential date is a convicted sex offender.

The woman, identified in legal papers as Jane Doe, is suing Match.com, according to ABC News.

Her attorney, Mark Webb, held a press conference this week to explain the philosophy behind the suit. He said his client had no reason to believe that the man she met through Match.com had previously been convicted of sexual battery.

Criminal charges are pending in the incident alleged in the civil suit, according to ABC.

“When somebody uses their credit card to pay, [Match.com should] basically run the card through a sexual offender database,” Webb said. ABC reported that a Match.com lawyer said the company is unable to create such a screening system. It’s a little unclear why, though.

 

This is news, but not to us at HKH.  According to Channelnewsasia, the Chinese, especially the men, need to get over their fear of online dating:

“With about 50% of China’s Internet users between 24 and 40 years old, online dating services are taking off in a market estimated to be worth US$800 million, as more Chinese turn to the Internet to find potential marriage partners.

With the Internet as a main tool used for social networking among the younger generation, the online dating market is expected to grow even further.

Online dating portal ‘Shiji Jiayuan’ was established by Ms Gong Haiyan, who set up the dating portal after she experienced trouble finding a marriage partner on other online sites.

“Members of those sites signed up for different purposes. Some only wanted to make friends; others wanted one night stands; some wanted to make business contacts”

The website eventually took off, now boasting a database of 30 million singles, and sponsors dating shows on television.

“Chinese are brought up being told not to speak to strangers. So it is hard for many to approach an attractive stranger since they are timid and shy. The Internet is a good tool for meeting people as it is much easier to start a conversation with a stranger online.”

Despite the boost the Internet provides for partner-seeking Chinese, many more may have to stay single for a long time.

According to a recent study, more than 24 million Chinese men could find themselves without a partner by 2020 – due to a skewed gender balance caused by China’s One-Child Policy and a cultural preference for boys over girls.

In 2005, there were 119 men for every 100 women.

Some areas had as many as 130 men for every 100 women, according to the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences.

Male migrant workers are more likely to remain single, because low wage levels makes it even harder to find a wife.

“Most single women would have found a husband faster if only they lowered their standards. The issue of ‘left-over ladies’ is really an individual problem but the issue of ‘left-over men’ is a social problem,” said Ms Gong.”

Yeah, so, time to jump in the dating pool…

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